(人生游戏五只球GoodThoughtstoKeeinMind
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Imaginelifeasagameinwhichyouarejugglingsomefveballsintheair.Younamethem:Work,Family,Health,Friends,Sirit.Andyourekeeingalloftheseintheair.Youwillsoonunderstandthatworkisarubberball.Ifyoudroit,itwillbounceback.Buttheotherfourballs—family,health,friendsandsiritaremadeofglass.Ifyoudrooneofthese,itwillbeirrevocablyscuffed,marked,nicked,damagedorevenshattered.Theywillneverbethesame.Youmustunderstandthatandstriveforbalanceinyourlife.
How?
Dontundermineyourworthbycomaringyourselftoothers.Itisbecausewearedifferentthateachofusissecial.
Dontsetyourgoalsbywhatothereoledeemimortant.Onlyyouknowwhatisbestforyou.
Donttakeforgrantedthethingsclosesttoyourheart.Clingtothemasyouwouldtoyourlife,forwithoutthem,lifeismeaningless.
Dontletyourlifeslithroughyourfngersbylivingintheastorforthefuture.Bylivingyourlifeonedayatatime,youliveallthedaysofyourlife.
Dontgiveuwhenyoustillhavesomethingtogive.Nothingisreallyoveruntilthemomentyoustotrying.
Dontbeafraidtoadmitthatyouarelessthanerfect.Itisthisfragilethreadthatbindsuseachtogether.
Dontbeafraidtoencounterrisks.Itisbytakingchancesthatwelearnhowtobebrave.
Dontshutloveoutofyourlifebysayingitsimossibletofnd.Thequickestwaytoreceiveloveistogive;thefastestwaytoloseloveistoholdittootightly;andthebestwaytokeeloveistogiveitwings.
Dontrunthroughlifesofastthatyouforgetnotonlywhereyouvebeen,butalsowhereyouaregoing.
Dontforget,aersonsgreatestemotionalneedistofeelareciated.
Dontbeafraidtolearn.Knowledgeisweightless,atreasureyoucanalwayscarryeasily.
Dontusetimeorwordscarelessly.Neithercanberetrieved.
Lifeisnotarace,butajourneytobesavoredeachsteoftheway.
Yesterdayishistory,TomorrowisamysteryandTodayisagift:thatswhywecallit“ThePresent”
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试着把生活想象成一个游戏——在空中抛接五只球。
它们是:工作、家庭、健康、友谊和精神。
你想让它们尽量停留在空中,很快,你就会发现,唯有工作是只橡皮球,抛之于地,还会反弹回来。
而另外四只——家庭、健康、友谊和精神都是玻璃球,如果将其中任何一只抛至地面,都会不可避免地留下疤痕、裂缝,甚至粉身碎骨,毫无办法将其复原。
因此,你必须懂得维系生活的均衡。
如何维系生活的均衡呢?
切勿盲目与他人比较,而低估自身的价值。
须知,人与人之间有差异,才显出个性。
切勿视他人的追求为自己的目标,唯有自己知晓自身所需。
切勿漠视心灵深处的东西。
珍视它们,如同生命;反之,生活将空洞黯然。
切勿让生命从指间悄然流逝,充斥昨日的忧伤和明天的憧憬。
活在今天,将会让每个日子充满阳光。
切勿屈服认输,一息尚存,奋斗不止。
切勿妄自菲薄,我们各有所长,亦各有所短,才会彼此相依。
切勿惧怕冒险,我们因冒险而学会勇敢。
切勿以真爱难求为由而紧闭心扉。
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